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Comparison is the thief of joy. 

Without comparing yourself to others we would have no reason to believe that's we are less than perfect.

We each brought gifts with us into this realm. Our job is to uncover & expand these gifts knowing that there are people out there waiting to receive them.

Forget about those who don't value what you create or express, they're not important. Find your passion by following your excitement & share you gifts freely. Trust that your higher self has a plan & surrender to that plan, even if pursuing it seems scary.

The unknown can be scary but ultimately that's where we discover more of who we are. 

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 G'morning ☀️ 
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I would modify it slightly: It's not the comparison, it's the ideal that is the thief of joy. When you compare, whether you find yourself to be superior or inferior depends on which of you two is closer to an ideal. And even if you don't compare yourself with others, having an ideal to aspire to, steals the joy.

OTOH, it also makes you improve. If you aspire, you win the long game, because you improve all the time. But you can still be miserable, because ideals are by definition unattainable. 
 I'm pretty sure it's a Bible quote & it has a much broader application than just creating. Chaining yourself to an ideal has a very similar effect & is perhaps more limiting than comparing your idea to what already exists.

I feel like the creation process largely requires you to get out of your own way. To allow the inspiration to flow to & through you rather than force it out with sheer will.

The doubt over your own abilities & how the creation might be received doesn't help.

An ideal outcome is subjective & only reached by comparison with what you known & have experienced. 

One of the beautiful aspects of creating is enjoying the unexpected outcomes from the process. The more you let go of expectations, the easier the creation process becomes. 

Achieving an ideal outcome is near impossible but iteration of both the solution & your approach is important. Create then iterate. Judgement & comparison to your ideal before & during the creation process just gets in the way. 
 Never actually read the Bible, but a lot of it is ingrained in western culture, so might be possible. 
 Me either mate.

It's just a quote that resonates with me. 
 Hell yeah. GM to that vibe!

I’ve struggled with the common “compare & despair” trait many times before 

What a spiritual journey this is proving to be 
 I know man!

I never expected to be taking this journey either but the more blocks & limiting beliefs I clear, the more empowered & free I feel.

All this from magic internet money. 🤣

 
 Love it. “Freedom” is a feeling. No doubt about that. The more we master that, the more free we are in a way 
 Wow, beautiful way to phrase that. 
 So much yes! Thanks for this @Brisket