@11ab3874 because 1) it's clearly disciplinary
2) he can't even be bothered to tell me himself

Like "Excuse me, your husband needs you to drive into the city to discuss your performance, how does this time work for you?" 

 @4a2a1511 Ahhhhhh I see. I didn't get the entirety of the his tone at first. 

 @11ab3874 I'm 23 years into the experience. 

 @4a2a1511 That's about as old as I am! 

 @11ab3874 I figured you were close to that. I'm old enough to be your momma. 

 @4a2a1511 Haha well I have been theorizing that you're slightly younger than my own parents