nostr:npub1zx4nsay889fcjrlk0zmpywe9y7pz6fflphwdcyzkjad4hmyk09asw6s6fq because 1) it's clearly disciplinary
2) he can't even be bothered to tell me himself

Like "Excuse me, your husband needs you to drive into the city to discuss your performance, how does this time work for you?"