it isn't contacting my relay even though it's in the relay list - the only entry even

it looks like the relay list in coracle still works by the old relay lists and not NIP-65 in/outbox lists, to me, that's why i said it

it only worked well when i ran an instance and locked it to my relay 

 the NIP-42 worked better in the custom instance situation too, like sometimes as quick as 10 seconds or less to auth 

 Cool, I'll look into both those things 

 yeah i saw you had worked on the relay list page to add the ability to easily add more... maybe to add some buttons so you can set relays as in/outbox?