It does seem like a problem with moderation, but moderation is often such a heavy lift, as the yesterweb website points out. No one wants to work a full-time job for now pay policing their peers. Maybe decentralized moderation can improve this situation, or maybe a google plus type app really is the holy grail, where if you don't want to share content with someone you simply don't share it with them. nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyv9kh2uewd9hj7qgkwaehxw309aex2mrp0yhx6mmnw3ezuur4vghszxthwden5te0wfjkccte9eekummjwsh8xmmrd9skctcpzamhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumn0wvh8xmmrd9skctcpremhxue69uhhxmmrd9skctnswfhhgetnwshxuet59aex2mrp0yqzqak8r2hr5jglrk0wc37t59lz98x6gyf6pwaku6hpwakhvslznjh6e6dxen  mentioned recently that maybe this could be done using nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyv9kh2uewd9hj7qgwwaehxw309ahx7uewd3hkctcpzdmhxue69uhhqatjwpkx2urpvuhx2ue0qyt8wumn8ghj7etyv4hzumn0wd68ytnvv9hxgtcpzamhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgtcqyqtnnkfhmjxqcums4gn4skfccyv7yhzp7mzyrfwnf3kns5p7xymw7rjykum 's NIP 104 MLS integration. 

 What's the case against using your personal relay for that? 

1. Have a personal relay (which you're incentivized to have anyway)
2. Host various content types on there
3. White list selected npubs for selected content  

 Having a personal relay = Being able to target your publications like an email, but for every content type
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