That's weird, but I can see powerful men sounded by "Yes Men" all the time, being into this kind of thing
Explains my entire career path. LOL
I can't imagine what you've experienced
I’d like to be abused by women, but my wife says she has the monopoly on that!
that is another aspect of it as well
it's a polarity thing... we tend to have an inverse image in intimacy to our public image... the cliche of the gentle oaf is a good example
and probably how ticklish you are has a part in it too! they are like buttons all wired to the base chakra
Human Duality
Private and Public Personalities
Dr. Jeckle and Mr Hyde