That's the problem with good life, you need poison to help fight the boredom. But I do try to resist cheese very hard. Harder than I resist sugar and alcohol.
Tea, coffee, and cigars - I don't even try. I practically run on them. 

 Alcohol is for sure a vise for me. I smoke a pipe regularly. Aside from that. I raise/grow a bulk of my own food and mainly stick to what’s reasonable. In all things, moderation. 

 But I do deep fry my meat in ghee butter. That seems to be no problem. I guess estrogens stick with proteins, not with fat.
I know, tallow would be better. But there is no tallow on sale, gotta make that myself. While ghee butter is easy and cheap.