ive got a relay somewhere on my start9 server running over tor for people ... https://image.nostr.build/803bf34cb8540169e4aea193c35f6c83b4bbba31c36cec531e92359205d80d2a.gif
this is why supporting NIP-65 and NIP-42 and NIP-11 is so important, and yes i remember NIP-66 is in early stages to help you find relays it would be great if there was more of this kind of use pattern, it's more jam resistant than the current state of things