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 > the `connect` request is sent to the user's pubkey

But to which relay? 31989 to find the domain which leads to .well-known with your nip46/relay. Or? 
 oh yeah, ideally the new NIP-05 would copy the `nip46` nip05 entry 
 Doesn't look nice, third-party nip05 can change it at will and user has no control over it, 31989 is at least at user's control and is signed. 
 Although the way I described it, new nip05 would be the priority :)
Anyways, since we're adding to 31989 anyways we could do both and figure out later which works better.