Yes… so in order for it to be a connection you both must “follow” one another…

This is an interesting feature. It would make it instantly recognizable to the user that the bidirectional connection exists… 🤔 

 When would that be useful to know?  

 All the time? Anytime? 

 I mean, what's the use?
1. Do you need the number if connections, and for what? 
2. Do you want to know who an npub is connected too, and for what?
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 Yes, I see what you mean… 🤔