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 What do you define as gentle parenting? I define it as not using violence or the threat of violence against your kids. 
 That’s not what it means at all G. 

Hitting children has been out of fashion for 40 years, gentle parenting in practice is an overly permissive or “soft” parenting style that avoids discipline or accountability, letting kids dictate family dynamics. 

It’s an inherently feminine framework that overemphasizes feelings and often results in kids who struggle with boundaries or who feel overly entitled. 

Gentle parenting is less as “nurturing” and more “avoiding conflict”, making the parent more of a “friend” than a figure who sets firm limits. 
 Ah ok I think we’re just disagreeing over definitions then. I’d describe that as permissive parenting. Can’t say I disagree with your original post now. 
 Most gentle parenting is permissive parenting in my experience, no practical difference. 
 Those types of parents tend to get walked over by their children.  
 Check out www.peacefulparenting.com

It’s a book on this subject, I found it phenomenal.  
 with Love, tuff love if necessary. training/teaching with patience & positive strategies that work with lifeforms. i never hit my kids in a physical form.   or animals under my care