Yea, my phone isn't. I removed Google services, deleted my social network .. I just have Element/Signal/SMS, podcasts/music and my photos. I'll be at a party for over an hour and reach to show someone a photo I took and remember I left it in the car. Without G-services, it lasts for over two days on battery. My Firefox mobile has like 30 old tabs I never look at or remember anything about. I have Fedilab, but never really open it unless I have a specific photo to post.
Phones don't have to be traps. They can turn back into tools. But it does take work. Work most people aren't willing to put in.