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 Fair point. Life involves risk. You gotta choose what you’re willing to deal with. nostr:note1mm2nk9r5pe8yxv5z7pgyq32cuq5aznsyv3tsjm078gtgetjf8sjqulf3ny 
 Just like in real life, there’s unsafe areas everywhere and very safe areas, choose wisely in life. 
 Fuck around and find out. if you never fuck around you'll never find out anything 
 Exactly 
 https://youtu.be/WFZuu0loB_M?si=qzt6k2Z_bBNHCDw4

I suspect some of these would-be femme fatale are just faggot's trying to rain on our parade..💦🍆😊

Been there, done that..😈 
 And I think this is the larger issue, right? A lot of women don't feel like they want to put up with this risk or these issues are not worth the time for them. It's a valid response. We can do better for them.  
 Not sure if anything we do will be enough. Bluesky prob a better option for some people and there's nothing wrong with that. 
 I'd like to believe there's a better option than telling people to use something else. We just haven't found it yet. 
 I think we are already doing better relatively. What we can’t change is how others behave. Sure, it’s always best to call out the assholes but those are also opinions no one can stop. 

If this is meant to be a free speech platform then we as individuals need to also be responsible for our own behaviours and actions. We are not going to muddy the core idea of this place as a free speech, algo and overlord free space to please everyone. Let’s educate individuals not coddle them. Let us be responsible for ourselves.