your statement stereotypes women and their roles, doubt many men leaders have gone to war let alone know how to operate a drill. These are the kind of thoughts that people are often distracted with, instead of having real discourse about the harm of war or any other real issue be it market reforms or social reforms for that matter.
Men can be bad rules too, and women can be good rulers. But this is one of many trends people need to understand.
Stereotypes exist for a reason. You couldn't open a door without assuming it's like other doors you've met. One problem is being unable to think beyond stereotypes. The other problem is thinking stereotypes are evil. You cannot live without making generalizations.
...and it seems you're living up to another female stereotype of being unable / unwilling to engage in rational intellectual debate. Another terrible quality for a ruler.