The less judgement that happens in the world the better. I am a big fat NO on both questions but I do everything I can to restrain from judging others for anything they do. It's probably not their fault and if it is they are in their own state of jeopardy and we can only be an example to them of what is higher level consciousness. If they are not asking for advice, then they are not listening to any answers we have. When they ask, then they are listening.