don't compare 
don't stress
take time
try multiple approaches 
hopefully have a supportive spouse/family, but at first, they can sometimes be the most critical and judgemental.... this too fades with time
it's mind-blowing how much we give away to the state or others in the name of education 

There were many reasons we chose this route, and at times it can feel like too much, press-on

seek out other homeschool groups or families, but don't place too much on comparing what you vs what they do

don't fall for the "socialization" bs, either.....