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 Sorry. We’re stupid cave men who figured out how to make magic with sand. 

If it makes you feel any better, we get just as frustrated - trying to be a nice guy and not bother women who aren’t interested in us often means just being alone, since we think none of them are. 

My wife came and snatched me up. I’m a rescue. 
 I gave him my number unasked and he was like, What do I do with this? 🤦🏻‍♀️ 
 Yeah, bro needs help. Just ask him out. It’ll blow his mind. There’s a chance he’s a nice guy. 
 The old saying is that men chase women until the women catch them.