Oddbean new post about login | logout what problem do you encounter? mine is working good. I'm using different clients day by day and most of them are doing good with DMs. Primal, Coracle, Damus, etc.
im using 0xchat and amethyst. usign jellyfish relays and some other public relays. i had situations which i was using 0xchat to 0xchat or 0xchat to amethyst and i didn't received the message on the other client.