why nostr dms not work as smooth as other protocols? is this something to be fixed on relay or client side? i would be happy to have your experience and ideas.

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 Can you share what problem you have with current dms?
I want to take note and make improvements for my app
https://github.com/lumehq/coop . It still buggy and messy, I will shift focus to it after done with my nostr client - lume. 

 nice. the main issue is that using same relays, clients are not synced. i can't see my friends messages randomly in same client using same relays. but other client show them properly. text notes are always much more synced.

i used coop, after setting up new account it opens a white page and nothing change then.

i want to findout if there is any technical issue from relays, clients or protocol. if any actions must be taken in relay, i can work on it. 

 what problem do you encounter? mine is working good. I'm using different clients day by day and most of them are doing good with DMs. Primal, Coracle, Damus, etc. 

 im using 0xchat and amethyst. usign jellyfish relays and some other public relays. i had situations which i was using 0xchat to 0xchat or 0xchat to amethyst and i didn't received the message on the other client. 

 Have you set up DM relays? 

 yes.