I think Jack is alluding to the zap wallet functionality on Primal being top notch. I sent 1000 sats to my Primal wallet from my alby. And now it lets me zap anybody very easily.

With Damus you might have troubles zapping individuals for their posts, profile sure, but not posts. 

 to get zaps on notes in Damus go here -
https://nostrscript.suhailsaqan.com/ 

 Idiot. 

 What? 

 i don't know for sure but for some users ZAP works fine. am using mainly Amethyst and primal, as early stage its good but some features needed like video supporting etc.. 

 Nostrudel.ninja is my favorite (using the Spring nostr browser on android). You can switch seamlessly between different sites. Check out emojito too for setting up custom emoji reactions (on compatible clients).  

 I moved to Nostrudel.ninja (self-host) too. Most stable experience.  

 I want to do this. I VPN hop through my home net so it would be useful to have the server running/caching notes there through obsfucated connections to relays. I imagine the performance is much better.