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 @dabe0ad5 @f9408be4 @b7cf77c6 @91f99226 @dd5fb5aa 

My Suggestion is that no matter how epic the fallout is; be honest with your children, especially from age 8-10 forward, and don't hide huge future land-mines from them... because it will come back to bite you in the ass.

Just saying.

My own parents literally loved and hated each other, and for us as kids, it probably would have been best if they'd have split. 
 @b2e3a57d @dabe0ad5 @f9408be4 @b7cf77c6 @91f99226 @dd5fb5aa 

My guess is that the wife has had an affair for many years, and would consider having sex with the husband like cheating on her true love.

The porn penalty is just a way of justifying her actions. 
 @87e0b6e2 @b2e3a57d @f9408be4 @b7cf77c6 @91f99226 @dd5fb5aa 

Interesting theory. Not sure she's cheating on him. 
 @dabe0ad5 @87e0b6e2 @f9408be4 @b7cf77c6 @91f99226 @dd5fb5aa 

I'd say she's probably not cheating.

He just should have figured-out that her mom is a conniving bitch before marrying her. 
 @dabe0ad5 @b2e3a57d @f9408be4 @b7cf77c6 @91f99226 @dd5fb5aa 

You have listened to it from ground zero, I am one level removed.

My reasons for the suspicion is the fundamental difference between men and women, the majority of women are incapable of loving multiple men, unlikely men that can have feelings for multiple women. 
 @87e0b6e2 @dabe0ad5 @f9408be4 @b7cf77c6 @91f99226 @dd5fb5aa 

You're only pointing-out that when women allow another man into their trust above their Spouse, they're ALREADY Cheating, even if no sex is involved.