Oddbean new post about login | logout Will I be able to know before I send the first message?
Yep, the incognito will light up if the receiver's DM relay list can be found.
@Vitor Pamplona which apps use DM relays besides Amethyst?
In theory, all NIP-17 implementers must use it. At least 0xchat, amethyst, coracle, gossip, coop use them.
And in practice? 🍿
No idea. I think they use their own relays when the DM relay is not set, without setting the DM list for the user. Which is bad, imo.