Sure, right now they're hardcoded to wss://nos.lol, wss://nostr-pub.wellorder.net, and wss://relay.nostr.band. I'll update the relays though, since at least one of those is no longer in commission. 

 Totally makes sense. 

If you were gonna try to sense the user’s preferred relays would you pull from the user’s latest kind 3 event? Kind 10002? Or some other way? 

 Definitely kind 10002 

 Cool cool. I’m working on relay.guide to help people find and save relays so they can publish kind 10002 events for apps like yours! 

 Nice! 10002 is in the spec, but you should probably read kind 3s since some old clients don't support 10002 yet 

 That’s the plan! Just need a free weekend 😂