Yeah.

I also don't know why they think women will "improve", if you treat them badly.
The sort of men who think you just need to scream louder or smack her harder, if she 

will. 
not. 
listen. 

 They don't want women to "improve". They want them to submit. Nothing angers people more than a woman who DOESN'T back down and give up.  

 Yeah, I know. Unfortunately.