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 aren't you missing the point here? Freedom is about doing whatever, be hateful, be joyful, be whatever you want to be. Freedom isn't meaningful if everyone behaves exactly as you want them to. As long as they're just words and not any violence, you can preach freedom and peace all you want. 
 Freedom means to respect the other who you don't agree with. If you promote hate you aren't respecting the other. Besides, hate speech always ends up in physical violence.  
 1000 sats if you can find me a definition of freedom that uses the word "respect"

freedom is the ability to ignore others attempts at changing definitions and do what I want. with that being said, "fuck around and find out" is legit. 
 Respect is for your friends. As I said before freedom isn't meaningful if everyone behaves exactly as you want them to.  This false notion that you MUST respect all other cultures is counter to freedom. Physical violence comes when someone doesn't respect *Propert rights* not when they disrespect your culture. 
 Freedom is all of those things, including freedom to dislike people you don’t agree with. It includes freedom to be a dick to people you don’t agree with. 

But that’s still being a dick, and my “we can do better” statement is simply a call for greater humanity, in the specific context of the cruel/derogatory meme that was circling around yesterday.

https://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/eleanor_roosevelt_166988 
 Greater humanity is found within your own culture not from when another culture imposes their values upon you. While I find it personally gratifying to "Not be a dick." Until someone violates property rights they can push air out of their mouth, or draw a picture, or type words, I don't give my energy trying to moralize to those outside of my moral milieu.  
 I agree with the principle here. But we’re also social creatures, with social cues and social “rules”, so when someone does behave “badly” it’s appropriate for those around that person to give them the cue. Some people don’t get invited back to parties, or get a second date. 

My main sentiment is that it’s a common to point to “freedom” as a reason to hate on other people. I think we’re in agreement that the freedom still needs to exist 🤝 
 Thanks for engaging thoughtfully 🤝