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 He's correct in saying that Isa has a bigger platform because of her physical appearance. She is beautiful & has a vibrancy to her that's very attractive. That's not to say that she doesn't deserve the love & attention that she gets though. We are all deserving of love & attention.

I think that people should be more careful with their words & let go their judgement. If someone's message doesn't resonate with you, right at this moment, just move your attention elsewhere. 
 Appropriate profile name, there I think... 
 Generally tough but sometimes succulent & juicy? 
 I meant the idiot who complained because Isa is beautiful, but sure. 😄  
 Ahhh gotcha 😆 
 It’s not about being careful with your words. 
It’s about asking yourself why these words come to mind? What is it about this person that triggered a knee jerk reaction in you? 
It’s not about Isa. It’s about him. 
She’s merely a mirror or reflection to something in him that he lacks, hates, fears or resists. 

Do some shadow work. 
Get to know yourself better, and what has you tick. 

Then the “words” part becomes the easy part.