If you're technical, use an anonymous remailer. https://www.gnu.org/software/mailman/index.html If you're less technical, use https://github.com/Start9Labs/cups-messenger on Star9. You can run somethibg like this on an old computer, even a raspberry pi if it's all you're running.
Not technical/ needs to be super easy for everyone
https://keet.io is also pretty easy. People can be as anonymois as they want to be.
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