You guys are doing a great job! 

One thing I keep seeing is people asking about relays. I wonder if it would be helpful to add a little faq to relay view?

What are they? How do they work? How many do you need? Etc 

 https://github.com/damus-io/damus/issues/623 you could add some tooltips.

I think the ultimate solution should be automation by default https://github.com/damus-io/damus/issues/423

Unless you want to configure stuff yourself.