I play hockey with a children’s hospital doctor. Great great guy. Canuck too so he’s got that gentle kindness & trustworthy approach. 
He just could not understand my position at all. Didn’t push too hard but he thought I was fuckin crazy for not taking a shot & not trusting the narrative.   
He’s seen so many vax injured now that he wants to know how I was getting such good info at the time.   
My spidey senses went off immediately with Covid. I didn’t need anyone to tell me, I just knew it was the flu & I’ve never once considered a flu shot for me or my family ever.  Gut instincts matter.