@The Software Pagan it's like I either don't respond ever and disappear for awhile or I post too much and respond too quick before thinking. I struggle with it, I know I'm not the only one. I never expect the responses I get because I don't hold that contempt in my heart towards ppl, ever. I would say what I say to your face & still have warm feelings after they attack me as a wife and mom. Ill defend people's rights to say shit to me. It's just sad to see what people hold in their hearts.