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 Sounds like a courageous conversation needs to happen. No assumptions.. just lay it all out. And identify how to make it the best for all. Common ground, common goal, clear expectations, and the “why” aspects are important. You got this! 👏🏻 Best of luck to you. 
 I don't think you understand: I get attacked on everything in the past 20 years. This isn't something that started in the last 5 years. There are people playing both sides. I am apparently a PITA to everyone because I do what's right. That's apparently why so many people are pissed off. The point isn't one conflict, because there are already plenty of other (false) accusations in a different context, involving different people.
There isn't a single party with which things need to be resolved. At least, not from what experiences of the last 5 years are telling me. The problem is that there are a number of false accusations at the root. And most likely a whole lot of stupid people. And, yes, I am rude about this because time and time again these people only accept me as the bad guy. I have always been open to conversation and tried contacting people a few times. Every time I get lies. It's not that strange, because they all assumed I would easily give up. So, if you talk about e.g. haters, that was the perfect shitty attitude. That is, until I showed significant progress.
I like the project. I don't like the many people who are involved only to attack me without any reason and without giving me even a chance to explain. The evidence was and is there.