Oddbean new post about login | logout I did say most people. I never said everyone. A generalization of literally yeah everyone would be a ridiculous argument. I didn't think it needed clarification. Dad work is more important than dev work though.
I'm just saying that because of that fact, it's pointless to argue for Vitor to have kids, which is what you're effectively doing, which is counterproductive when you haven't even shown that you'll respect his decision. You sound like a dick. I've made the same mistake many times, so believe me, I know this pushes people away.