Why do you think Bluesky is there go to - bigger audience there?
It is much bigger. 10x-100x
Better user experience?
A bit. But they invested in infrastructure and it paid off big. In truth, nostr would not be able to handle a faction of bluesky even with a perfect UX.
I think it just comes down to simple norm user onboard, and it looks a lot like twitter did, and when they get there the users are more diverse. We need nostr clients onboarding on interest rather than just recommending bitcoin/nostr folks