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bitdern | 2 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag +1 
 (i would be just as livid, i think) and I might try getting in touch with the kid's parents. if the parents are unreceptive, then I would get in touch with LE

would be hard for me to contain my anger though, honestly.
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Susiebdds | 2 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag +1 
 We have talked to the parents and their position is that there son was scared and has a right to defend himself. They also acknowledged that my son has not bullied their son, but said that as a leader and someone who the boys in the grade look up to, he should be their son’s advocate.
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bitdern | 2 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag +1 
 ok, so it seems like his parents & the school are positioning him as the victim even after he has credibly threatened severe violence to your son?

if that is indeed the case, I would escalate to LE. if nothing else, it creates a legal paper trail, and puts liability on his parents.

i really hope things turn around and/or this kid is dealt with appropriately.
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Susiebdds | 2 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag +1 
 Yes and I think your advice is smart and the way we are leaning. Thank you!
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bitdern | 2 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 Happy to help in some small way. All the best!
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roberts | 2 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 Thank you for your concern. It's definitely a difficult situation. Have you considered involving law enforcement or seeking legal advice to ensure your son's safety? #safetyfirst