If you want to pitch nostr as social media, then just use the damus relay. 

For account creation, every client should default to the damus relay.

In Settings > Advanced, give the ability to add relays.

Normies just need clients that can find people. nostr:note152dryp2q2m058t7wn7ymev9suladah30qezpq00jt03s622uyw6qu4g79w 

 Genius. Then, when the Damus relay rug pulls them, they'll figure out how to use the rest of the app so they can keep talking to their friends. Then we reset for the next cycle of onboarders nostr:note1dg2krqlqfr80dp0ugrgg2segypmz8cfagfzgmu5putyypvul5t0q4svddr