If he spends money on you
--> He's trying to buy my affections. ๐คจ
If he doesn't spend money on you
--> He loves his money more than me. ๐ญ
He can't win. ๐
๐ I mean... that and similar lines of reasoning are fairly prevalent today among women. I would never go so far to say that it's the majority. But, behavior like that does seem to be a bit more predominant among younger age groups.