Holy shit, you're my doppelganger!  Going through that exact process right now.  It's the emotional side of things that's truly trying, especially on her.  The stress of losing your house, your life of 40 years, and the realization that you've been betrayed and made a fool of.  We just moved her into her new apartment but it was quite the downsize.  The adjustment period will take time, and worse yet, the divorce won't be finalized until next year.  The enemy within really did a number on our family. 

 Stay strong and stay the course. You can write this ship.