a lot of nostr is cringe af. no one talks about this
Such as?
Be the flagger of cringe you aspire to see.
It is a completely uncensored social media. You're gonna find the entire gamut of takes, including and especially minority views, some based views, some eh ew statist nonsense, and some absolutely abhorrent views. Try to just mute, block, or ignore people who are clearly abhorrent, and seek out people who are pretty consistently based.