the receiver isn't paying any fees, that's coming out of the UTXO
yes, this is another bounce risk, that they broadcast it again with a higher fee rate
it's not an instant payment, it's a contingent payment, like a cheque
What I meant was, if the sender low balls the fee, the receiver wants to get the tx confirmed, he will pay via cpfp
yes, this can happen, but if it wasn't worth doing you'd just spit at the bastard next time you saw them
the use case really is something like how it would work with a cheque though... the main thing is it can be conveyed offline, without intermediary risk... just counterparty... you wouldn't count the payment settled until it is in your utxo