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HODL | 4 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag +1 
 Trust me man. Loyalty used to be my strongest virtue. I didn’t want these relationships to end. I didn’t burn these bridges. They did.
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slimjim | 3 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag +3 
 said every bridge burner ever 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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HODL | 3 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag +2 
 You don’t owe people who are disloyal to you loyalty in return. Took me a long time to realize that.
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slimjim | 3 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 one doesn't owe loyalty to anyone as if it is a debt that can be paid off.  

loyalty and duty stem not from the quality of the other person but from their nature

actions based in loyalty and duty must be consistent with the nature of the relationship, not your feelings.  

you have a deeply embedded sense of entitlement bro.  killing it will kill your self, that is, i think you're too old to change. you can't even evaluate yourself from a 3rd or 4th party perspective.
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HODL | 3 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 Fourth party perspective? lol 😂
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slimjim | 3 months ago (raw) | root | parent | reply | flag 
 assessing how you go about assessing how you go about living