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 After reading a couple more of your posts, I disagree with your premise that these men your referring to want to subjugate women.  Its all about just being comfortable in a relationship.  Feminism has disrupted things that have existed for millions of generations of successful men.  Right or wrong isn’t the issue, its just a behavioral pattern in us that cant just go away overnight.  It’s confusing to us. 
Im just old enough to have had relationships that were very traditional and transitioning into relationships now where I make much less income than most of the women I meet so I have an interesting perspective.  

In any case, its an interesting topic for sure and I don’t have the answers or pretend to be right, just sharing my perspective as a decent man and a successful father of 2.5 grown men.