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 Okay so what is your reason for hating men if it's not because your not panpered enough, your selfish, you have no consideration for other people's or in your case men's feelings & last don't appreciate the value of security a man brings you?  What exactly is your problem if it's not all the above? 
 I have never met a man who didn't want to take advantage of me and use me to satisfy his pornsickness. Why am I obligated to care about men's feelings if they can't be bothered to treat me as more than a porn category? 
 It sounds like you have a personal problem & like to create these situations on purpose around you for the attention. Maybe you need to change everything about yourself so you don't have these issues.

Why don't you show what you look like & wear on a weekly basis? I bet I could find everything wrong. To answer your question your not obligated you just need to understand that it's a fundamental part of building a foundation also known as making a relationship work. If you can't do that from the start people will see you as a bitch who is only worth a fuck. You of all people should understand this as your quick on the offense so is any person you date if your tone of voice sounds like you have an attitude or are just irritated the whole time your with them. Men don't think that's cute it's annoying & in 60 seconds the mind can be made up shes a bitch she'll never be a good wife only worth a fuck & i'm done.

 
 >Maybe you need to change everything about yourself so you don't have these issues.

I am, by not being around men.

Sorry but I'm not giving you wank material. Go find some underage girl to request it from 
 It's ashame how close minded you are I wonder if your really a man in disguise. Wank material lol that only shows based off what you told me that you wear skimpy clothing probably a belly shirt with booty shorts showing more then half of your ass cheeks with your thong above the waistline. Your wardrobe must make you look like a hooker out on the streets. If you didn't wear that kinda clothing you woulda just sent the pic.

Underage so are you saying your a child spewing all this nonsense?  
 Do you really think any woman would just give you pics of what she's wearing simply because you told her to? You are proving my point. Women are not your property. 
 Your point is what exactly? All your doing is making assumptions & then jumping on that like a typical instigator that your own assumption is all you need. Did I ever say once you are my property or I demand that you give me a pic? 

If anyone is proving a point you are proving mine that you create these scenarios around you & act victim for attention. Understand what a request is then learn the difference between being asked & being told. This makes me think from ur last comment maybe you are a 14 year old who needs a better education. I think I may be starting to feel something along the lines of pity. 
 
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Brenda, no one wanted a long-term relationship with you because you were never beautiful, witty or kind.

And now you're old.

The men of Nostr actually don't want to take advantage of you, except by riffing off your posts whenever it would be funny. 
 “Brenda” posts like they’re a “Brendan.”

Mentally ill tranny.