I get you. My head spins out of control 24/7. Everyone needs to be heard at some point in their lives. I've lived with many roommates over the years and remained very lonely until I met my boyfriend. Sadly he became a wall after awhile as well. Men don't think like women do no matter what we are separate for a reason. You need to find other females to yammer with because it drives men nuts. They are always kind and tolerant in the beginning but it wears on their nerves after awhile. Men can actually sit with nothing going on in their heads. Women can't. Chat me up if you need an ear.