By the wise words of a man from joe dirt 

" home is where you make it" 

Nostr is a home get building it because its yours and nobody can take that from you! 

I didnt want to come off as mean in any way. Just have to be upfront. We cant create something new and expect it to be exactly like the old thing that we bitch and whine about how shitty it is.  

On the other hand welcome to nostr 

Start with these resources and see if it helps. 

Nostr.how