Very crotchety about the entitlement family members feel to have sick people take care of their emotions about the sick person being sick right now.

You have been told that I need space and rest. Forcing a visit so you can give me a 'cuddle' (and telling me 'I know you don't like cuddles' - I do, but not from the person who never cuddled me as a child - that's weird) and make me take care of how upset YOU are that I'm losing my job (which is more important to you than my health) sucks. 

 Feel better getting all that off your chest?