Very crotchety about the entitlement family members feel to have sick people take care of their emotions about the sick person being sick right now. You have been told that I need space and rest. Forcing a visit so you can give me a 'cuddle' (and telling me 'I know you don't like cuddles' - I do, but not from the person who never cuddled me as a child - that's weird) and make me take care of how upset YOU are that I'm losing my job (which is more important to you than my health) sucks.