Berating people to stay unhappy and unhealthy is definitely wrong. 

It’s hard to have strong marriages and strong families when everyone is here in modern captivity, instead of engaging with survival every day together. When people needed each other acutely, marriages and families were stronger. 

 I think adjusting incentives toward making productive behavior more attractive than unproductive behavior can go a long way to strengthening families. 

 At the end of the day it comes down to communication and balance. If those don’t happen every marriage is doomed to fail. 

 Temptation to sin is a real thing and avoiding sin is a real defense against this temptation.