Dont connect to many public relays, set up your own wot relay (you can connect to it with tailscale or tor if you dont want to expose it, https://github.com/bitvora/wot-relay), use some paid relays that handle the filtering for you. Reply or hit me up (signal link in profile) if you want more details https://i.nostr.build/4oGkiCZc5dS4GbDw.jpg