They are taking those pills because instead of learning good things, such as cooking(which is literally therapeutic) and cleaning, they are fed expectations of crap like high school, uni, jobs and hypergamic feminist crap.
Little girls need to be fed quality patriarchal anime from an early age so they learn what they need to emulate and what their role in society is. Their idols should be Kotonoha Katsura(from her good routes of School Days HQ) and Sylphiette from Mushoku Tensei.
 Once that is accomplished, all this BS about xanax will go away. 
And tbh, in your case, you were dating a nigger lover, since she was a White "Liberal".