Have you looked into Zeus? Only lightning wallet with acceptable privacy from the LSP.
I installed it after their big update to try it out. It did not just work and I couldn't be pissed to screw around with it
Yeah it's a bit clunky but worth looking into it. First lightning wallet I feel comfortable using instead if xmr. For most things at least.
I use Phoenix for when I need to use LN. It's ok for my threat model.